. . . sometimes the punishments just became harsher and harsher because, well . . . many times the lesser actions didn’t do a thing.
Heart Parenting Strategy: Consequences Aren’t the Only Answer
Sometimes a do-over is a better option.
Practice doing the right thing.
Require positive changes before returning privileges.
Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do. (James 1:22-25)
10 Days of Heart Parenting is a series God laid on my heart after I read the book, The Christian Parenting Handbook by Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, R.N. Be sure to click over to read the other installments of this biblical parenting series.